Thursday, November 11, 2010

Thankful: Day One


November.  This time of year is my most favorite.  I love the colors, the weather, and the food.  Thanksgiving is in a few weeks, my daughter will turn three the day after and then Christmas will come a few weeks after that... I love spending time with friends and family.  Even though there is a lot going on, I try to slow down and reflect on the things that are most important to me.

So on that note, everyday for the next two weeks, I am going to post about what I am thankful for and what I am going to do that day to make it my focus.  It is my hope that this will help me to take it all in, remember what is most important to me in life, and keep it at the forefront of my focus for the day.

Today being Veteran's Day, I think it is most fitting to honor them.  So today I am thankful for...


I have very strong feelings about our military and their sacrifices.  My dad was in the military, so I grew up in that lifestyle, and I have to say it was amazing.  I learned to adapt to new situations and people quickly, and learned a new type of camaraderie from other military families, something I have not seen outside of that world.  I traveled the world and met many different kinds of people.  I learned that family is the most important thing. 
When people ask me where I am from, it takes me a moment to answer because I don't think I am from one certain place...sure I was born in Florida, but I didn't stay there long.  I lived in Germany, California, Alaska and finally ended up in Colorado.  I think I am from the military lifestyle, not any single place.  I am a "military brat," and proud of it.

My sister was in the military and went to Iraq a several years ago.  I was still in college at the time and was so fortunate to be able to visit her before she left. 
(Side story:  I went to tell one of my professors that I would not be in class for a couple days because I was going to see my sister off to Iraq.  This professor had a rule that if you attended all classes for the semester, you would get extra credit.  She mentioned I would not be excused from class for the time I missed and therefore, would not be eligible for the extra credit.  I was in shock.  I told her, you have got to be kidding me, you will excuse a football player because of a game, but you will not excuse me, even though I am going to see my sister that is leaving to go to a WAR zone and fight.  I was livid.  Needless to say, I didn't need the extra credit because I got an A and my sister came home, but still, it bothers me to this day.)
I cannot tell you what it is like to have a family member overseas and in danger.  It is constantly on your mind and heart.  On top of that, she had a daughter and husband at home.  She is amazingly strong and I am so proud of her.  I was so glad that I was able to see her off and to see her come home. 

My brother-in-law is also in the military.  Currently, he is serving our country in Afghanistan.  I am so proud of him and honored to call him family.  He left his family at home too - my sister, my niece, and my nephew.  I can't imagine how hard it is to be away from your family for months at a time, especially during the holidays.  I can't wait for him to come home in the new year. 

I am indebted to all military personnel - past, present and future.  You have made a huge sacrifice, and you have done it for millions of people you don't know.  You enable me to live a life of freedom and choice.  You make our country safe and fight against people that want to harm us.  Thank you for being so brave and putting your life on the line, so I can live in comfort. I am so grateful for you.

I am so blessed to live in a country where I can choose what I want to wear today, choose what I want to do, and choose how I want to live my life.  I am blessed to live where I am free to make my own decisions and choices.  I owe it to these brave men and women - the ones that came before us and gave us this great gift, the ones today that put their life on the line, and the ones in the future that will continue to fight for our way of life. 

Today, I am thankful to be free.
My goal: Thank each person I see in uniform today.

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Wordless Wednesday


Friday, October 8, 2010

Busy!

So I have been a TERRIBLE blogger for the last few weeks! It is wedding season for sure. After this weekend, this will slow down for me, so look out for some real weddings and fun blog posts! I'll be back!


Here are a couple pictures to hold you over:

Real Photography



Teshon Christie Photography

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Wordless Wednesday

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Wordless Wednesday


Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Wordless Wednesday


Friday, August 13, 2010

real wedding at donovan pavilion, vail {liz + jimmy}

"I love you darling and that' no lie, Stick by me...
When you cry, I cry, too, Stick by me...
Remember my heart and my love belong to you, oh
Stick by me and I stick by you"
Stick by Me - John Holt

Every now and then I get the honor of working with a couple that literally makes me stop what I am doing and take it all in - to remember why I love doing this so much. Sometimes we get so caught up in what happens when, where this goes and what comes next, that we forget why this day is here to begin with. This year one of those couples {I had a few this year}, that has made me stop and think, was Liz and Jimmy. During the whole weekend, whenever they were together, you could feel the love between them. It was almost palpable. I don't think I have even seen a couple happier and more in love than them, and that's saying a lot. They love each other with every sense of the word. I found myself watching them on their wedding day in awe of the way they loved each other. It was so carefree, true and passionate. They were filled with love that day - from their friends, family and from each other. Amazing is an understatement.

Liz and Jimmy are incredibly generous and loving people. They were so giving of their time during their wedding weekend. Quite a few people came into for the wedding and it can be somewhat stressful to be pulled in different directions, but they handled it with such grace. They made sure to have a conversation and take pictures with everyone - they were so willing to be there with each of them.

They were also themselves on their wedding day. I'm sure you are asking yourself, "What is she talking about?!" Let me explain. Sometimes I feel that brides feel like they have to "act" a certain way on their wedding day because they are the bride. I know I felt that way and it is one of the things I wish I could go back and change. I didn't feel like myself. I didn't feel like I could act goofy or funny because that wasn't how a "bride" acted {please tell me I am not the only one...}. But with Liz and Jimmy, they were completely themselves and it was such a joy to be around them. They kissed and hugged, and laughed all day long. They were carefree and it was beautiful.

Liz and Jimmy - Thank you so much for choosing me to be a part of of your wedding day. I am so grateful for the two of you, your relationship and sharing it with everyone. It was so refreshing to see you two together on your wedding day. I hope you never lose that spark for life and for each other. I want to thank you for being the most authentic, generous, bighearted and thoughtful people I have ever had the privilege of meeting. I wish you nothing but happiness for many, many years to come. I know your wedding day was just the start to an amazing life together.

Their wedding has been one of my favorites of the season. It was all around a remarkable event - from all the unbelievable details to the great food to all the friends and family they shared their day with. Without further ado, here are some pictures of their stunning wedding.

Venue - Donovan Pavilion, Vail CO
Photographer - Julie Afflerbaugh Photography
Rentals - Alpine Party Rental
Caterer - Gourmet Cowboy
Flowers - Cheryl Porter
DJ - A Great Time DJ
Officiant - Faye Gipson
Coordinator - Something Classic Events